Opinion Of Yourself Is What Matters The Most
Opinion is a judgement from their own perspective like, my doctor says that I need an operation, but I'm going to get a second opinion. Opinions are just the frame of references, which varies from perspective of one’s to another.
Everyone has their own opinion, and quite often people enjoy sharing their opinion with others. However, opinions are contaminated because they only exist in each person’s own frame of reference. It’s not a compulsion of having the same opinion with respect to others, as everyone’s opinion is based on their own experiences and their own observations of the world. What is “right” for one person is not necessarily right for another. In fact, when it comes to opinions, this is rarely the case I believe that other people’s opinions are not that important to me, and particularly so when that opinion is about me. But what matters the most is, only your own opinion based on your perspective.
But Now a question arises-
Does the Opinion of others matter?
When it comes to your life, the opinion of others should matter very little. I am not talking about your family and friends, their opinions may matter very much, but others who have no importance in your reality, like your social peers for example. They are inconsequential to the overall scope of your life, and yet you secretly strive for approval and validation at the cost of your own. But your own opinion is the all-time king, it can either push you forward in your life or hold you back.
Bear in mind that in social settings no one is being real. It’s all an act like, Sometimes the story we tell isn’t the real picture, as the one that lives inside us. Faking ourselves and others, is what seems to be trending now a days. This is because the thing we care too much about, is what others think, we cheat ourselves out of better lives.
Therefore, what truly matters most is your own opinion of yourself. Only you know what your life has been like, what you are capable of, and what you want to achieve. Only you can see all that and form an opinion that has taken everything from your life in to consideration. But too many people hide from themselves and avoid making assessments of their own actions. I believe that these people are functioning in a purely reactive and “stressed-out” way.
And, if you are one of these people, then you need to start being honest with yourself and start forcing yourself to assess your own actions.
In my opinion: “Listen to everyone, but do whatever your heart wants to do”. The thing is, it’s your responsibility to make personal decisions in life. But I’m talking about your decisions on only your life not others.
In conclusion it doesn’t matter what other people’s opinions are, you can listen to their views, but do what your expecting from yourself to do and don’t compromise your decisions or do things for approval or validation. As this could look or feel cool for them but not for yourself. So, it’s better to be genuine and true to your opinion all the time.
“The Only Opinion That Matters,
Is The One You Have About Yourself.”